BOTTOMS UP!

The world is full of assumptions I have come to learn. Some people assume change will never happen, some assume they’ll always be healthy or pretty, or that love is forever… people have the habit of making all sorts of assumptions both in SL and RL.

Who’s a top and who’s a bottom, that’s always assumed by looks when cruising or negotiated while flirting; let’s not forget that a pleasurable experience is what really counts on here, so one must be honest. No matter if you look like superman, if you are a bottom but have that “fierce top” look, say it with pride… I’m a bottom.

It has been covered and discussed on here several times that people’s choice of looks both in RL and SL it’s up to them, specially in wonderland (aka secondlife), but what happens when very active tops decide to go for the twink look, or look skinny? I have this Asian friend who has chosen to look as faithful to the Asian canon as possible, hence he’s athletic, but petite, compared to some.

So he TPs to a bear club and I quote: “I GET TALKED DOWN”, let me translate, he got called hey boy! and all sorts of things which clearly indicated to the crowd present that he was… a sub bottom, this plainly judged on his looks. Now, there’s nothing wrong with being one, but it’s wrong to assume…

In my own personal experience, a nice long conversation, which covers all quirks and fetishes, gets me more pleasurable sex than a simple assumption or a very dominant statement to encourage me into submission, and this is coming from a versatile who usually goes both ways.

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