POWER that SEXUAL APHRODISIAC

Power is something that is given to those who don't want it and most of the time refused to those who only look for it. In Plato's immortal words, "The measure of a man is what he does with power", there are many people in life who will go to any lengths in order to get some kind of power and second life is no different.

Sex play can be an exchange of power, the DOM top and the SUB bottom, giving and taking power principle but what happens when people use sex as a weapon to climb the social, laboral or any other type of power structure ladder? what to do when a person approaches you or anyone in your circle playing the innocent little creature and manages to climb its way up in a rather speedy fashion through orgasms?

There was a political figure and a very famous one for loving the ladies -I'll let you guess about that one- who said that he never slept with the same woman for too long as there was information that could be either: leaked, abused, mishandled or received when a man had just exited a powerful orgasm, as you do not think clearly, so it was best to save himself the grief of doing the clean up later.

I guess on some sense he was right, there are some things you simply do not mix; the responsibility of losing face to those who depend on you, due to having the wrong influence in the bedroom, being one of them.

BOTTOMS UP!

The world is full of assumptions I have come to learn. Some people assume change will never happen, some assume they’ll always be healthy or pretty, or that love is forever… people have the habit of making all sorts of assumptions both in SL and RL.

Who’s a top and who’s a bottom, that’s always assumed by looks when cruising or negotiated while flirting; let’s not forget that a pleasurable experience is what really counts on here, so one must be honest. No matter if you look like superman, if you are a bottom but have that “fierce top” look, say it with pride… I’m a bottom.

It has been covered and discussed on here several times that people’s choice of looks both in RL and SL it’s up to them, specially in wonderland (aka secondlife), but what happens when very active tops decide to go for the twink look, or look skinny? I have this Asian friend who has chosen to look as faithful to the Asian canon as possible, hence he’s athletic, but petite, compared to some.

So he TPs to a bear club and I quote: “I GET TALKED DOWN”, let me translate, he got called hey boy! and all sorts of things which clearly indicated to the crowd present that he was… a sub bottom, this plainly judged on his looks. Now, there’s nothing wrong with being one, but it’s wrong to assume…

In my own personal experience, a nice long conversation, which covers all quirks and fetishes, gets me more pleasurable sex than a simple assumption or a very dominant statement to encourage me into submission, and this is coming from a versatile who usually goes both ways.

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