The Sex Evolution

As you get old and your sex experience improves, so does you general intercourse protocol. When you are a teenager is all about doing it, doing it often and doing it all the time, same applies to when you are on your twenties but your a bit more experienced so you go from doing it like bunnies to actually have a taste on who you interact with, there's the added factor however of getting to the point when you've tried it all before your bits get flabby - a very common fear among the gay community who have the general opinion that 30 and upwards is the end of fabulousness-

But then as you grow older and more experienced, sex gets to new levels of complexity, the things that turned you on and you fantasized about in the past lose their glitter and shine and achieving orgasm at all cost is no longer the one goal that drives your sex life -which does help improve your overall intercourse-.

Time in second life moves differently tho, a bit faster than that of real life -no real explanation but evolution and personal growth varies slightly and you do move quicker through personal experiences and growth, something I have pointed out in earlier posts- and surprisingly, so does you second life sex experience.

When you log in for the first time and you learn you can have sex if you snatch the right parts, is all about getting some of that and as much as you can, but then as you get deeper into the experience -I believe it was the first thing I went around looking for, but not something I am after as a main goal in second life lately- you learn there are so many options out there to improve the experience and which does indeed make a difference.

Like the old saying goes: "Is not about the destination but the road traveled", simply put is not all about cumming but how you get there...

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POWER that SEXUAL APHRODISIAC

Power is something that is given to those who don't want it and most of the time refused to those who only look for it. In Plato's immortal words, "The measure of a man is what he does with power", there are many people in life who will go to any lengths in order to get some kind of power and second life is no different.

Sex play can be an exchange of power, the DOM top and the SUB bottom, giving and taking power principle but what happens when people use sex as a weapon to climb the social, laboral or any other type of power structure ladder? what to do when a person approaches you or anyone in your circle playing the innocent little creature and manages to climb its way up in a rather speedy fashion through orgasms?

There was a political figure and a very famous one for loving the ladies -I'll let you guess about that one- who said that he never slept with the same woman for too long as there was information that could be either: leaked, abused, mishandled or received when a man had just exited a powerful orgasm, as you do not think clearly, so it was best to save himself the grief of doing the clean up later.

I guess on some sense he was right, there are some things you simply do not mix; the responsibility of losing face to those who depend on you, due to having the wrong influence in the bedroom, being one of them.

ALTS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN

When you are a shop owner and if you are in the fashion industry, sometimes the easiest and quickest way to get a decent looking model that will create the minimal amount of troubles when posing for vendor pics or attending a fashion event, is creating an alternate account and simply making him / her from scratch to your liking.

And it does work; You log them when you need them, you can turn them around make them pose for hours and they will never make any insane demands or make you wait because they are “busy” elsewhere. “Legion” is one of my most public ALTS and not one I have ever used for vendor pics until very recently -this is because I have him busy doing other things-.

There are numerous people in the LGTB community however, that have ALTS for far less industrious intents, which is frankly fine by me, but what is one to do when trying to start a relationship with a person in SL? How can you be absolutely sure that the person you ARE dating is in fact not an ALT of someone already dating a person on another account?

The cold hard fact is that you truly can’t be sure. It is all based on trust, you trust the person you are dating and believe everything they say to be the truth. In RL we are deprived of the advantage we have in this simulator we call second life of being a completely different person and at times, people abuse this. I dated this guy in SL a while back and one day he simply disappeared a midst of what I considered to be “marital bliss”, he told me he had RL issues, elaborated on those briefly, we even tried to work out ways to keep in touch outside SL but those never worked well either; at some point I got bored of waiting for him and decided to move on, only to find out he had miraculously solved his issues and had moved in -in second life- with one of his best friends. To this day I am still convinced he was, or had been alting the entire time, but just didn’t have it in him to end it with me.

The fine line is, people need to stop regarding second life as a “game” and realize that there are people behind every avatar, people that have feelings and that should not -and MUST not- be toyed with. If your sole intent for second life is recreational sex, don’t start a relationship with a person, stick to random sex.

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