Talk Dirty To Me...

Virtual sex, specially in second life is about how invested you get in the whole situation. Sex by principle is about abandoning yourself and letting go, but to reach such a point different people need different things.

Second life is the land of kinks when it comes to sex, and while being single I was exposed to a very interesting and broad array of demands from potential sexual partners, but one I never humored not even once was voicing.

Voicing, for those unaware of how it works in second life, is simply the action of actually “emoting” on voice chat, while the avatars do the deed; surprisingly, for a large number of people -larger than one would initially assume- voice is quite essential and non-negotiable. Why is it that people rely on the actual use of voice so desperately, when text emoting can be so quite pleasurable?

Having done some asking and research, most voice enthusiasts admit that it does give one a lot more freedom to include either toys or self pleasure with both hands, while forgetting chat entirely  which brings the whole experience to a more realistic level. I must admit I have never ventured into Voice Sex chat, and my boyfriend and myself mostly communicate with each other on voice, but when it comes to the intercourse, we prefer a good old fashioned emoting on chat.

So what type are you? the no Voice no sex type? the no Voice only text kind? or the mix and match type? Whatever it is that you like to bring into the sex, always keep in mind that not only second life, but sex is all about having fun and enjoying yourself, so if someone whispering on your ear dirty words makes you climax and text does nothing for you, don’t get mad when a potential partner you found hot will refuse to do things your way.

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