Oral fixation

Out of the many erogenous zones that humans have, the most unsung and taken for granted would be our mouth; it's there with us but oddly enough it doesn't seem to be an active participant when it refers to foreplay or the actual intercourse perse.

Of course, stimulation and what triggers it varies with each person, and often finding out what works for you and your partner can be complex, but that's when experimenting - and how much fun it is to try again and again until you get it right - comes in handy.

Using your mouth as a sexual toy can be fun, you can combine this with food, with words, you can resort to licking, nibbling... I could go on and on but you get the general idea of what I mean. But using your mouth not only involves the physical aspect of it, during the actual intercourse some find it exciting to make your beloved organ of speech an active participant, namely by throwing some dirty talking.

But how do you know how much dirty talk is too much?, in SL emoting is all there is, unless you decide to voice during sex - so virtual sex is all about knowing how to stimulate your partner with words, as there is no physical contact -, in RL however there is a limit on using and abusing dirty talk, watch for responses on your partner and if your dialogue becomes a monologue, then it's time to focus on the pumping and shut up.

Remember your mouth is a powerful instrument, if you know how to use it.

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