All I want for Xmas is you...

Christmas time is for many cultures that time of year when we look back and get some retrospection over the soon to be past year -you do get to do this three times if you are American, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years-

There are paths you take and places you go as a person during the course of your year -mostly justified by your own logic or set of moral rules-, choices you make and things you would have rather not said or done, but which you thought meant happiness; most of the time, it is at times such as the holiday season when, mostly fueled by alcohol or triggered by things around you, when all is brought into perspective and what really matters just shows.

So whether is real life or second life, if you have not taken the time to tell the people around you, those who really matter how you really feel, if there is a close relative you have not talked to in a while, if you are mad at your father or if there is that hunky neighbor or person on your friendlist that you have not worked up the courage to talk to, don't dilly dally or beat around the bush any longer, do as the song says and just go point blank and to the point "all I want for Xmas is you" 

You don't know how much longer you are going to be here, so why linger over stuff when you can just be frank and have a merry old time?

I end this post with a fabulous version of an old time classic which mostly -MOSTLY- inspired this article -hey, we all have unresolved issues-

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