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In long term relationships, gay or straight, there’s the inevitable effect of the intercourse becoming a routine. It’s only natural, as soon as the partnership becomes solid and we figure out what works to bring our significant other to climax, we stick to it as if it where the constitution: a steady set of rules and canons that keep our sex life on a structured path.

But routines can become tedious -at least in my experience- and what feels “safe” is not always good in the long run. Adding a few things to the whole experience can work wonders to keep you both interested, a few toys, cam sex, perhaps public sex or even a third person. Most long term gay relationships in second life decide to become “open” -i.e free to have sex with whomever or better said free pass to sleep around- as they feel it works for them to keep things interesting.

There’s truly no secret formula, but what differentiates second life relationships to those in real life, is the hard fact that you have to throw a lot of experimenting and improvising on the whole virtual sexual experience so it won’t become tedious -visit a gay dungeon, have sex on a beach, maybe an orgy… the sky is the limit-.

Just keep in mind, sex is about how you get to the orgasm, not the goal of achieving the orgasm at any rate… it’s all on the road, not the destination.

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