T.O.S

Has it really been 3 months since I last posted? I guess when I do say I am taking a hiatus, I happen to be serious; a few things in life got complicated and that as always, demanded my attention first and foremost, hopefully I will be back -this time for good- to keep you all informed of my comings and goings in SL, or at least as seen from my perspective.

Of the many things that managed to catch my attention while I was away, the SL facebook community played an important role, largely due to the fact that it was the only mean to keep in touch with my loved ones while I dutifully stayed away from all distractions, so I could get my RL end sorted.

The avatar profiles and entire SL community presence in social platforms, was shunned and considered outcasts at first, -Facebook got smart- but it is safe to say that as things stand now we not only have found our niche and space outside SL, we are surely here to stay. It is not all rosy and blissful though, since SL is known -specially the gay community- for the heavy loaded drama, produced by those either scorned, seeking attention, bored, psychotic or -in worst cases- all of the above.

My interaction with Facebook is very straightforward, I see it and use it as a tool, not as an extension of SL, since it clearly isn't and that is where most people stumble and fall; Second Life and Facebook are two very separate companies, with very different Terms Of Service and regulations concerning their usage, all of them -yes even the small print- we all agree to abide by when we first sign in, and as long as you actively use their services and keep your accounts active you are still on a tacit agreement with them.

That is why I was more than surprised when a number of my facebook contacts -people I haven't even met in SL not even once by the way-, started a witch hunt looking for someone who apparently was going around reporting pictures -which either contained some form of nudity or adult content-, this of course got viral within a few days and people immersed themselves in something that I could only define as a "salem's paranoia", amusing to witness at first but after quickly losing its shine, it became annoying; so I proceeded to remove those I either didn't know, or hadn't spoken to in a big long while.

Since I do not generally get into the habit of writing about things I have no idea about, here is a quick link about Facebook's terms of service, so you can better inform yourself on how to use the service without becoming a target -pay special attention to number 3-

It is time to stop the whinning, the tantrums and the pouting around the corners as if we were 5 year olds because someone reported content we thought we would get away with; you don't like it? start your own page and post your adult content or whatever you so please there, THEN link it to facebook so people who so choose can access it, no one is above the terms of service, just because you are ignorant of them, does not excuse you from failing to follow them, these rules and regulations allow these companies to provide a service that is equal and fair to all users, and if you do not like it, take your business elsewhere.

I haven't had content reported in over 2 years -and I do try and push the limits on what is allowed, I admit it- and the reason behind it is because I do follow the rules that I agreed upon, but then again that's me. By the way the picture has NOTHING to do with the theme, is just me and my friend Cyrus partying; a touch of random for you.

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Age of Consent vs. Legal Age

Age of consent is what we all know to be a free pass to entertain sexual activities with minors, all depending of course on a number of legal loopholes which -in my opinion negates the concept of having such limit- makes it next to impossible to do it anyhow. Age of consent varies on each country and in Europe alone, Spain has the lowest age of consent, it being at the shocking limit of 13.

Now legal age would be that age limit where, having sex and drinking -in some countries- is perfectly legal and you are, to all effects and purposes considered an adult. As I was minding my own business the other day and while riding the train back home, I stumbled upon a newspaper article where Justin Biever -recently 18- had declared his wish to be taken more seriously as an artist, hence making an effort for this "maturity" to be reflected in his new album.

I quickly dismissed all of this as I finished reading it and carried on with my habitual tasks for that day, but as soon as I got home and while browsing a few pages, I saw this "nude celebrities" banner on a page, where -yes you guessed right- Justin Biever was now included among the large catalogue of other famous men and women we all are used to seeing advertised.

Now, this brought a number of questions in my head that I carefully tried to put together in an article; when is it socially acceptable to engage sexual acts with a person? Does it make it instantly right if the day you had sex with that 17 year old he was still 17 but hours later he happened to be 18? How about two days later? Sorry to say but in my opinion -and I'm not being judgmental here- that person you boinked who just so happens to have turned 18 recently, was a minor not long ago.

I am just both shocked and surprised to see how quickly Mr. Biever joined the ranks of the numerous celebrities out there who have nudes -fake or real- scattered all over the internet when not until recently, he was underage, but I guess that's where age of consent comes in handy, but personally I'm not exactly curious to see Biever's not-underage-anymore nude anatomy.

Just my two cents

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Sex Engines...

A sex engine in second life is that which makes beds and various furniture fulfill their life purpose, which is to provide sex for the couple or group of people it is programmed for, but this article is not about sex beds and the likes of it, it is about our impulse to associate motorized vehicles with sex.

It specially applies to us guys, if we ever hit a crisis of some sort that threatens our sexual identity, the first obvious choice will be a shiny long thing that purrs like a kitten and will get everyone's attention.

But when we're not compensating, we're bombarded often -no matter if you're gay or straight, there's semi nude people rubbing themselves on top of cars on the internet enough to redecorate the sistine chapel- with images that tell our heads that sex and engines are the same thing, and that sexy people have powerful engines.

I don't know about you, but sex in cars is generally uncomfortable -at least from my experience- so why are cars, boats, motorcycles and other vehicles always linked directly with sex and sexual situations? because sex simply put, sells.

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